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Attraction

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Can you remember when you first fell in love with your husband?  The way you would flirt... Hold each other's hand... The butterflies from that first kiss.... You probably talked for hours without running out of things to say.  You were learning and discovering each other.  You had so much excitement and energy as you fell head over heels. Somewhere along the way the excitement may have faded.  Things began to change.  Part of this is normal as we enter new phases of our relationship, but if you are struggling to feel attraction or even tolerate your spouse right now, it doesn't have to be this way! If you are unable to connect and feel less like soul mates and more like roommates who tolerate each other, decide today that you will choose to be attracted to your husband again.  Choose to be giddy and excited all over again.  I love the concept that attraction is a decision we keep on making. You can be with someone for years and not feel much at