Is Multitasking Ruing Your Intimacy?
Hey there, You probably think being able to multitask is a good thing. And, it can be when you have a million things to get done and a busy house to keep. When it comes to the bedroom though, multitasking can wreak havoc on your intimate life. One mom confided, “I love my husband and I love being with him, but my brain will not switch gears from mom-life to sex-life sometimes. I can be right in the middle of the act and I will start thinking, ‘Did you remember to pack the lunches? Are the kids safe in their rooms?, Did you remember to turn the crock pot off?’ I just don’t know how to switch my brain.” Has this ever happened to you? One way to deal with this is to consciously close some of the tabs, before you spend time with your husband. Having less to stress about or deal with can help your brain slow down and focus on what’s happening in the now. Taking time in the day to relax and refuel your energy are vital. It’s not selfish! Ea