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An Open Letter to the One Who Just Doesn't Understand Why I Chose This Work

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I won’t lie.    I have struggled with being a people pleaser at some points in my life. Some of you will be surprised by that and some of you won’t.   The truth is, I think we all have a desire to be accepted and admired by the people in our circle. I ran across this quote recently, “If you can’t handle being talked about, then you’re not ready for success.” It made me stop.    I mean, I want to be successful…but am I ready to be talked about? Luckily, I didn’t have to worry about that yet.   I wasn’t “successful” for people to start talking about me.    I’d cross that bridge when I got to it. I just didn’t know it, but I WAS already there. I come from small town USA, and I love it!   I love the friendly gestures and hospitality.   The smiles, waves and friendly conversations in the check out lines, with complete strangers.   I even love the southern drawl that marks the words we speak. With this small town living also comes small town talk.